What to Do Before You Find a Mentor
Most advice about mentorship starts in the wrong place. Before you find a mentor, there is foundational work that makes mentoring actually land. Here is what to do first.
Most advice about mentorship starts in the wrong place. Before you find a mentor, there is foundational work that makes mentoring actually land. Here is what to do first.
Why most employees never get a mentor is not a question many organisations stop to ask and that silence is part of the problem. Mentorship is widely recognised as one of the most powerful drivers of career growth, yet it remains unevenly distributed across the workforce. Some employees receive consistent guidance, sponsorship, and support. Others,…
Music has always changed how people feel. It can lift energy, calm the mind, heal heartbreak, spark memories, and help people through difficult seasons. But most music today is still built mainly for entertainment. It fills silence, creates a mood, or gives a quick escape. There is nothing wrong with that. But many people now…
Mentors matter. The evidence is clear. Guidance helps people grow, build confidence, and often perform better at work. Many successful people credit mentors as a major part of their progress. But there is another side to the story. Most employees never get that kind of support at all. And when they do, it often arrives…
One radical idea for Administrative Professionals Day 2026 and a movement hiding inside a box. There are 3.4 million administrative professionals in the United States alone. They manage the calendars, coordinate the chaos, anticipate the needs no one else saw coming, and hold organisations together with a kind of invisible intelligence that most leaders couldn’t…
There’s a silent crisis playing out inside companies of every size and most leaders don’t see it until the business expands or someone hands in their resignation. It isn’t a skills gap. It isn’t a training budget problem. It’s a mentorship gap. And the longer it goes unaddressed, the more it costs you, not just…
There was a moment during Covid that exposed something most people had never really thought about before, well at least I didn’t. Hospitals had a very limited number of ICU beds, which meant the entire system could only handle so much, approximately on average 6 beds per 100,000 people. And suddenly, something shifted. Your health…
Most people don’t talk about this, but adult friendships fading can really mess with your head. You start wondering if you did something wrong. If you should have tried harder. If you’re a bad friend. And the truth is… most of the time, it’s none of those things. Today, I want to talk about something…
Mentorship is one of the most powerful accelerators of professional growth. Yet many people assume mentors appear naturally through luck, seniority, or elite networks. In reality, mentorship is something you can actively build. And the truth is, you probably have to. Because when it comes to your career, nobody is coming to save you. There…
Watching an Orchestra Changed the Way I Think About Cooperation I once watched an orchestra perform Spring 1 by Max Richter, his modern reinterpretation of Antonio Vivaldi’s famous Four Seasons. The piece itself is astonishing. Richter took a composition written centuries ago and reshaped it into something modern, emotional and powerful. But what stayed with…
Why Your Brain Defaults to Negative Thinking Negative thinking is not proof that you are broken. It is your brain doing what it was built to do: protect you. When your mind goes into “don’t mess this up,” it is trying to keep you safe from embarrassment, rejection, judgment, loss. That’s useful in dangerous moments….
When we look back at history, one uncomfortable truth stands out: most of the blood spilled wasn’t over land, food, or even greed. It was over belief systems. Witch trials. Holy wars. Crusades. Assassinations. Entire societies convinced themselves they were defending “truth” when in reality they were clinging to stories — stories that divided and…
The words you use could shape someone’s confidence—or become their inner critic We talk to the people we love every day. But how do you speak to the people you love when it really matters? With kindness? With frustration? With sarcasm? Most of us don’t realize that our everyday words — especially when repeated —…
Michael Phelps didn’t merely dip his toes in the waters of swimming; he plunged headfirst into a world of deep commitment and unbelievable sacrifice. His journey to prominence is proof of how pure focus and relentless work ethic can transform one’s life. Michael Phelps: Building His Craft Before the Spotlight To achieve something extraordinary, Phelps…
When we think of mentors, we often picture someone giving us advice directly—a teacher, a boss, a coach. But mentorship doesn’t always come in conversation. Sometimes, the greatest mentors are people we never meet. Their lives, their choices, and their example teach us something deeper than words ever could. For me, one of those mentors…
We tend to think of mentors as people we meet in person — a coach, a teacher, a wise elder who gives us guidance. But mentors can also be found in books, in stories, in the courageous acts of people who refuse to be silent. Vicky Phelan was one of those people. Have you ever…
Healing Through Music: How Songs Can Support Mental Health and Beyond Not all mentors arrive in person. Some show up in the background while you’re cooking, in your ears during a gym session, or quietly echoing as you walk into a big moment in your life. Some songs do more than entertain — they shape…
In life, having balance isn’t just nice—it’s crucial. When one part of life is neglected, it can throw off everything else.
A real, raw reflection on life’s biggest question Wherever you are right now — walking, sitting, or lying awake late at night — I want to invite you to pause with me. Because today, I want to ask you something.A question that, deep down, you’ve probably carried for a long time, even if you’ve never…
Introduction If you want to know what it really takes to persevere in life, few voices are as powerful as Angela Duckworth‘s. A pioneering psychologist and bestselling author of Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance, Duckworth has redefined how we think about success — and it’s not about talent or IQ. Through years of…
It’s Admin Week—a moment to pause and recognise the unsung heroes in our organisations. Traditionally, that recognition has come wrapped in ribbon and sugar: flowers, chocolates, a thank-you lunch, or a card signed by the team. And while these gestures are kind, they’re also… expected. Predictable. And, in many cases, forgettable. They’re rooted in an…
Have you stopped and asked yourself how much your past shapes you? Does it dictate where we end up? Today we’re talking about something we all need to hear—your past does not determine your future. Let’s get into it. How to Let Go of the Past: Understanding the Power of Choice Life doesn’t come with…
Picture this: You finally work up the courage to approach someone you admire, rehearse your pitch in the car, and then ask the question that derails everything — “Will you be my mentor?” The silence that follows is deafening. Most people don’t know how to find a mentor because they’re treating the search like a…
You want to get disciplined, but you find it hard. You want to get the ball rolling and take action but how do you lower the barrier to entry. Here’s a a few quick ways of getting disciplined fast. Think About the Cost of Inaction If you struggle with discipline, it’s not because you’re lazy—it’s…
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